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Note To Self...

A man is just a man. Not the answer to all your hopes and dreams. Not the solution to all your problems. Not the one to calm all your fears and wipe every tear. Not the one to read your mind and come packaged with every requirement you ever desired. Not your savior, riding in on a white horse ready to whisk you away into paradise. Not the one equipped to give you an overwhelming supply of himself without expecting anything in return.


A man is just an imperfect being who desires the same type of unconditional love that you do. Take him off the pedestal and see him as equal. Remove this storybook fantasy from your mind and accept what’s real. Realize that a man needs to be worked on just like you do. A man is not perfect. Having a man is not the end all, be all. What you’re really asking and searching for is God…

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